Last weekend, Mark and I headed up to Binghamton for a family visit.
Mark had concert tickets to see Ani DiFranco and Martin Sexton with his
dad. I opted not to go to the concert, since I had seen both artists
in the last year or so and thought Mark might enjoy the time with just
his dad. I ended up the lucky one, however, because while they were at
the concert, I got to go to a garden party!
Mark's Aunt
Sarah and her husband Keefe live near the New York/Pennsylvania border
and have a beautiful home and property there. Mark has told me they
built the house themselves, after they were married on the land (which I
think is a beautiful story-and talk about 'handmade something'!). The house itself is also beautiful and
customized to their needs. The kitchen counter tops are 4" taller than
standard to accommodate their tall height! I felt a little like a dwarf
in the kitchen. But, the best part is their back patio. Raised high on
stilts with stairs to the side, their patio allows them to look over an
enormous back yard and eight (8!) gardens that Aunt Sarah has planted
around the property. It was an incredible view!


Leslie, Ashlinn, Josh and I got to
tour each one. The variety and beauty of all of her flowers is
astounding. I've never seen such colors before! None of my photographs
have been edited. I metered for light and snapped and what you see is a
depiction of the what I saw with my eyes.
It's clear
that these gardens are Aunt Sarah's peace. A literal piece of land and a
tangible peace felt amidst them. The largest of the gardens is gated
and has a grape arbor, too!
Sarah and Keefe have started a considerable garden. They've got 24
tomato plants growing in a raised bed and more strawberry plants than
you can count! We got to sample the strawberries, mounded atop Keefe's
homemade ice cream. That was a real treat! I'm so mad I didn't snap a picture... I was too busy eating.


Seeing so
much growth was very encouraging for me to get out in my garden and do.
It's been awhile since Mark and I did any weeding in our own veggie plot. I appreciate the
lives Sarah and Keefe have carved for themselves, out in the country, away from the
city. I feel that I could live that way. With internet everywhere these
days, there's no need to feel remote or disconnected (although if you
wanted that, you could have it in the country!). Since Indonesia, I
feel like I've been on a quest to discover how things are done; how
tortillas and tomato sauce are made instead of bought, how veggies and herbs are grown, how clothing and housewares are sewn. Indonesia would be an entirely different experience for me
than it was six years ago.




The more I learn and experience a handmade life, the more I want to get away from the commercial life where handmade things are passed over in favor of those that are commercially produced. I much prefer Aunt Sarah's rambling flower garden than the strategically spaced pansies planted in the parking lots of office buildings. I'm trying to do a little of this where I am, right in the city. I guess this is the major appeal of urban homesteading. My garden will grow this summer, but it's got nothing on Aunt Sarah's garden!